I think #1 fits the bill quite nicely.
Be myself? I thought I had to be Brad Pitt. And, believe me, Prada is not in my vocabulary. Any suggestions for a guy who likes to wear shorts, golf shirts and sandals (and a broad-rimmed straw hat)?
Ok, good to know:)
No. 1 is first and foremost. No.2 don't give a care to the opinions of those that needlessly criticise.